• Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
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    I thought I was a little weird, but mostly normal for 40 years.

    Turns out I’m only normal enough to fit in, but mostly weird.

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    I have several breathing problems with my nose and some inside bits. I always just thought breathing with your mouth was considerably easier, but people can’t do it because it’s not elegant.

    Now I’m trying to get the surgery covered

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    I dont have the ability to burp. Didnt think it was that big of a deal until recently learning its a condition called R-CPD and is directly responsible for the stomach problems I’ve had all my life

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    I have had the opposite impressions. Many people think what they happen to them is unique, until they start talking about it and many people around them is the same.

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      Growing up with the internet I have always felt the opposite. If you think or feel something, millions of others have too.

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    If it’s not normal to wake up in the middle of night with palpatations and existential dread caused by an overload of caffeine/sugar/terrible world, then I don’t know what normal is

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      I thought that was the problem, but it was just sleep apnea causing most of it. Try forcing yourself to sleep on your side, maybe look into a sleep study if you have the option.

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        Because you spent all night telling yourself if you fake sleep eventually you’ll actually fall asleep, but really you end up staring a hole through your eyelids. The fact that you can tell it’s light in the room with your eyes closed seems like a design flaw

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    Turns out that being so nervous about any kind of change in your life to the point you get physically ill is NOT normal.

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        You may have an anxiety disorder. I got therapy and meds and my life is so much better now.

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          It’s not a “may”. We are positive on this.

          It’s kind of chronic, I did the therapy and the meds but it came back eventually. Coping it is from now on.

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    Yes, because the definition of normal is “within this many standard deviations from the average”, and people consider themselves average until learning otherwise.