This!!! I cannot fathom how you could mistake the two to begin with, but why do you keep stuff for personal health anywhere near tools like that. Even if you don’t misuse it, eye drops need a clean environment too!

If you don’t like it, why bother to comment on it?

Like other comments said, speak with her.

Question for you though, have you started comparing a lot of things to being neuro? I have friends that did this when they found out. It’s great that you’ve found out something, but for them that doesn’t change a thing. For them you as a person are still the exact same (except if you’re heavily sedated , that might influence behaviour a lot). Question is, do you want them to understand you or the concept.

But again, go talk with her. If something is wrong in a relationship, there are always two at fault. Fault is going quite far, but often it’s not understanding or wanting to understand each other, misreading signals and who knows what.