You could be projecting some. Hard to say. You seem to be making some very strong conclusions which is hard to know if they are correct. Explicit communication is best. But try to start from a more neutral position and don’t assume your feelings/perceptions are accurate to how she feels.

Check out the anti trust community in my post history to follow this kind of subject more.

There’s active successors.

Have you never heard of red teaming?

It sounds like red teaming to me.

You don’t understand the value of someone red teaming?

Is there a way this kind of thing could be worked into lemmy as a feature?

It only has 60 days and who is regularly browsing feature requests to up vote?