• clonedhuman@lemmy.world
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    I set up my mom on Microsoft Outlook many years ago, back when you had to set the server and so on.

    She called me a few days later and said her email wasn’t working, so I walked her through looking at the options, making sure the right addresses and preferences were checked, etc.

    After about 45 minutes, I remembered that I already set everything up correctly and it was working. Then I decided to ask, “are you typing the @ symbol, or are you typing the word at in the email address?”

    Yep.

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      The first question after “it’s not working!” Is always “what isn’t working?” followed by “show me what you were doing”.

      Used to have to deal with getting information out of customers that were having issues with our app (as a software dev, not sure why that was my job). Eventually we just asked for a video of what they were doing first thing when anyone called.

      There’s so many tech illiterate people out there, even young people who grew up with their phones often don’t really know how to use it besides opening apps.

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      “are you typing the @ symbol, or are you typing the word at in the email address?”

      …wut??

      My father is 86, is fairly far down the slope of dementia, has a 5th grade education, has a hard time typing because he can’t really see the keys on the keyboard anymore, and still doesn’t do things like this.

      …maybe I got lucky?

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        This occurred about 20ish years ago. Mom had never touched a computer in her life before getting the laptop.

        And, this is the same woman who got a new phone and sent me a text that said ‘do you like my new phone?’

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          This occurred about 20ish years ago.

          Oooohhhhh…

          Now that makes a lot more sense.

          My own father has been using a computer since the 90s, initially just to track his own investments and finances, but later on to keep in touch with family back in the old country. So he’s got a bit more experience under his belt.

          Still, he manages to suss out all scams that target him, and does a fair bit of his own troubleshooting. And while the latter is decreasing in effectiveness as of late… the fact that he can still do this with a 5th grade education while in the grips of dementia at 86 makes me proud AF. I have to swing by more and more these days, but he always has detailed notes of what he’s looked up and what he’s tried and didn’t work, so I can have a full roadmap of what has happened. Honestly, I have clients half his age that are far more useless, and that’s why I still jump when he calls for help.