• Random_Character_A@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    My parents work ethics are very early 1900’s. Be positive, be consructive, be thankful, never say anything negative, always do 110%, be humble in every situation, no mater what happens.

    I get a small satisfaction, when I tell my father that I refused a promotion, because the position was a bullshit and a trashcan of unpleasantness, or that I resigned because the workplace atmosphere was not healthy. His face is always worth it.

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    6 hours ago

    Yes go into a business and have them look at your like you’ve got two heads while you’ve already been denied by an AI.

  • LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe
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    12 hours ago

    Just give them a firm handshake and look them in the eye. I’d like my parents to sit in on some of the developer interviews I’ve had.

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      33 minutes ago

      Total sidebar but I love telling this story every chance I get.

      Interviewed a candidate, he absolutely nailed the interview.

      The only thing that was “off” was he ate a full fucking breakfast on camera during it.

      Eggs, bacon, toast, potatoes, tea/coffee, he buttered the toast …. I mean he just went to town on this amazing breakfast. Didn’t skip a beat answering us and shoveling food in his mouth.

      Then turned our offer down.

      Absolute unicorn. I’ll always wonder what I missed out on.

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    14 hours ago

    Back when I needed a job I showed up on a construction site, asked politely, and they put me right straight into operating a crane. Just get out there, pound the pavement, shake some hands. You’ll be hired in no time.

  • TheTechnician27@lemmy.worldOP
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    15 hours ago

    This is the second day recently that I missed, so there’ll be two tomorrow and two the day after to make up for it. I’m just really distractible; sorry.

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    11 hours ago

    are those of us with boomer parent(s) still getting job advice? mine already retired haha

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      10 hours ago

      Mine was even though they were already retired. Tbf I was only working for 2 years at the time so I was still getting job advice. It was basically “try to work in government so you get a good pension when you retire”, even though the private sector equivalent jobs were paying double.

      • EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        9 hours ago

        I’m in my 30s and still get this kind of advice occasionally when I’m job hunting from my retired parents. My mom still talks about “rising through the ranks” even though I’ve been telling her for a decade that that’s not a thing anymore. Nobody goes from mail room to CEO. And nobody gets a gold watch either.

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    13 hours ago

    Something like 15 years ago, I was in grad school and my elder boomer father in law told me “when it’s time to find a job you can shave your beard.” Only this wasn’t a beard, it was just me not having shaved for a week. Is that what he would prioritize if he were hiring someone?! I’ve met few people in my life who are less in touch than that man