• Flamekebab@piefed.social
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    8 hours ago

    Plus I’m yet to run into a single person I actually know IRL on the fedi.

    Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

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      7 hours ago

      monolithic social media

      I…don’t know what that means?

      Lemmy is optimal for chatting with random people. If I want to share personal things, I prefer to do that with people I actually know.

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          7 hours ago

          Is that a normal metric for monolithic social media?

          Maybe not for you. For me, I use social media as a way to sew and cultivate personal relationships. Someone I know posts something interesting and I might pick up the phone and call them and talk about it or we discuss it the next time we see each other. Or maybe there’s a local event that someone shares and looks fun and I ask to join them.

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            6 hours ago

            That sounds lovely but it’s not been my experience of using social media (except Facebook). I’m not suggesting my experience is normal, or that yours is. I genuinely don’t know.

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              6 hours ago

              I couldn’t care less about what’s happening in the lives of celebrities or companies, or the unsupported political opinions of random strangers, but I guess I’m a weirdo in that way.

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                6 hours ago

                I tend to use things like Pixelfed to find people interested in the same hobbies. Mastodon I use more for general nerding out.

                I wasn’t intending to criticise your use-case. I don’t know what normal usage patterns look like.

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                  5 hours ago

                  Yeah I wasn’t trying to accuse you of that, just pointing out why I don’t care much for these types of platforms in general.